In a heated arguement a friend asked me "do you even know what it is to maintain relationships and friendships ? It is about give and take ! Have you ever maintained a long term friendship or a relationship ? At your young age you would not know such things".
It was harsh. I argued weakly..and let go thinking that it would be futile to tell him that i have been having friendships as old as 15 years,some 10 years..5 years..2 years..and even A MONTH OLD !!! I did not proceed to say that these years, efforts and this give and take is being left behind.
There are subtler things happening at the moment the new energies barging. If we are not alert..we miss the point ! The years put into friendships or relationships is not the point anymore unless these are gently shifting themselves in tune with the new energies.
How do we connect ?how do we feel ? and how do we gel ? Does it give us Joy inside ? or is that we are trying to drag a dead horse or trying to keep it alive just because it is years old and the society expects us to maintain it ?!
Some of the ancient friendships or relationships crumble away like a pack of cards without any reason or rhyme, without any arguements or fights ! Efforts are made to maintain such bonds ( efforts come from a point of beautiful sentiments ) but it works only for a while. Then at some point it 'may' begin to feel out of sync. And perhaps there is no match in the frequencies. The roles in each other s life also could be over and a divine contract would have ended. During these times we have to learn to let go with gratitude and beautiful memories in our heart. For in reality there is no seperation. We have to let go without guilt and holding on.. Make it easy for ourselves. A deeper understanding of these things..and u will not even feel the pain while letting go. Fly and let fly... We may meet them again at some point.
There is a rearrangement going on. Something like molecular rearrangement ! We have begun to connect to people of our frequencies. Perhaps the bonds formed in sync with the new energies may not need much of efforts to maintain them. All it needs is love,freedom and an easy flow and a connection from the heart.