Lostwifetothelights

[LOGCABIN]

I informed my husband that I want a divorce as I want to get closer to the light.    He is IN SHOCK.  HAS ANY ONE ELSE DONE THIS?  Any suggestion you could share with me to transition to my new family?

[Kerrie/Zoolithe ~site creator ♥]

Yes this has happened only recently with one of my members,we are at a time when we are embracing an aspect of us that we need to honour and not everyone is in that space,I send you and your husband love may you both go on this next phase of your journey with grace and respect for where you both are on your path,no better then just different,we will all meet in the end. 

[LOGCABIN]

Would your member want to share how do deal with leaving the kids also.  Any information on how to move forward and transition leaving my other family behind would be helpful.  Thanks

[Kerrie/Zoolithe ~site creator ♥]

It is not my place to speak of this member here is a  post  where there were some good comments that may help you disregard the title 

Disturbing Entities???

whoops wrong post I’ll keep looking

http://thefederationoflight.ning.com/forum/topics/help

[Rhode Island Jim]

Maybe you can explain to me, and your husband, how divorcing him, gets you closer to the light! To me - if there was darkness in your marriage - you are "copping out" telling your husband, you need to divorce him, in order to bring yourself closer to any light source. If you want, and need a divorce, because of a bad marriage, then by all means, get one, but don't shoot him, or yourself, flimsy excuses. "Step up to the plate", and own your life, and take responsibility for what you do, and who else you affect, by the choices you make!

This may seem like harsh advice, but as we all move closer to Ascension, you need to get real with yourself, and all others with whom you deal, and interract. 

[LOGCABIN]

Jim

Thank you for your harsh advice and you are so right on....  This is why I was asking for guidance I think the light is blinding me and all I want to do and have been doing for the last 6 MONTHS is take this journey.  My husband thinks I have been very selfish with my time as I spend most of the day Meditating, then going to yoga class (everyday) then exercise more stretching when I get home.  I have also gotten really addicted to all the u-tube video's and wide area of interest.  The Paladins, New World Order, Merkaba, Kabala, Sacred, Kundillini,  End of the world stuff, Planet X, and the list goes on and on.  Then I'll do a few daily chores, I do alot with mastering Astral Projection and stuff like that.  He thinks I abandoned him.  I told him that I would choose my spirituality and new light friends over my marriage....That's all he needed to hear....... Do you think I have gone to far with all this stuff.. I love being enlightened. Can you get addicted to this stuff?  Any help or suggestions you can give me would be appreciated Jim.  Thanks

[Rhode Island Jim]

Trish - the 1st thing you must ask yourself is "do I love my husband?" If the answer is yes, you both must sit and calmly discuss what;s on your collective minds. Yes, it's true that sometimes we tend to go a little bit overboard, when we start learning new things. We must balance ourselves in what we do. You have to look at your husbands point of view.  If you had no marriage to begin with, then there's nothing to save. If - on the other hand, you just got excited about learning new and exciting things, but forgot to include your husband, then you must rethink that! He still loves and needs you and is most likely unaware of the things you're learning. Try including him - you'll both be better and stronger for it, and have fun at the same time. And in abswer to your last question, yes indeed, you can become addicted to almost anything, if you simply forget your other obligations. If you had children (I'm assuming you don't yet) how would they feel if their mom was too busy learning about the light, and ascension to feed them. Things like that must be considered.

Hope I was some help. Much love and light and namaste from                                                   "big" Island Hawaii, and Rhode Island Jim

[Neoamor]

Many of us had a discussion a few weeks ago about this very subject: Feeling deeply spiritual, and living with a spouse that thinks you're wacko.. :)

Family of Sleepwalkers

Maybe it will be of use to you..

[John Kelly]

Hi Trisha,

I believe that I'm the one Kerrie is talking about. My name is John and I am on the mend after splitting with

My Wife about two months ago. I'm sorry to hear of what's going on with You and Your S/O, but do understand.

If there's anything I can do or if you need anyone to talk to about it, I would be both honored and grateful.

I wish you the very best in the coming days.

Love & Light...

J.

[Kerrie/Zoolithe ~site creator ♥]

Thanks John xxx

[John Kelly]

It's why I'm here...

:)

XXX

[Kerrie/Zoolithe ~site creator ♥]

Dear Trica it sounds like balance is needed,remember if anyone gives advice to you that is not from the heart bless them and let it go,there is no judgement,no right or wrong,this is a hard concept for us humans to accept,you are healing,you are soul integrating,love yourself,believe in yourself,there is a reason why you feel the need to go to the extreme, honour that as a mother to a child,as there is an aspect of you that is crying out to be heard,listen to it, let it know it is loved and together you will walk this path and find balance again,believe in you,love you,the divine feminine is being embraced now,let go of guilt,let go of those that would disempower you.

1ST MARCH 2012 ~THE FEDERATION OF LIGHT~

[Mary Quan Yin Miracles of Love]

Hi Sweetie, contemplated divorce many, many, MANY times during the course of my accenson (years) especially as it got progressively more uncomfortable and went deeper into myself...could not bring myself to leave, because "leaving " is illusion, just like death or suicide. I stayed and saw it out. We have kids too. And, I love my husband. The love never died, it is and was alwys there between us. we are twin flames or oversouls for each other or something like that.

So in essence, leaving that love was leaving self love, love of myself. I realized I would not be loving myself enough to learn and get the lessons from the sometimes very uncomfortable dynamics if i up and left AND i knew this negative pattern of leaving would follow me into other relationships and situations until i moved thro it and resolved these things in me and in our relationship...

Challenging people and situations are teachers and I realized if I am to master this life and dimension, leaving would be a castatrophe, cause more problems than they would resolve (if any, coz again leaving is illusion), put everyone thru a lot of pain, abandonment, separation, suffering, torture (including myself!), and probably make it harder for me to stay on task and centered on ascension because of all this pain, (not-unity) and illusion being activated when I should be staying the course, meditating, healing, clearing, letting go of my stuff, helping my family heal and ascend, and NOT reacting to his stuff and marriage stuff, some of which was really MY stuff too that I was projecting on him and the marriage.

See what I mean?

And in all of that, I came back more deeply to myself, God, my higher self, my mission, deeper healing of myself, him and my entire family (vs traumatizing myself and my family), and expanded self love, awareness, consciousness and mastery.

Marriage and Relationship has its benefits. That is why I chose the marriage and family pattern this lifetime. My family is/are my best teachers as i am theirs as well and God bless them and us all!

That is my wisdom and experience. Follow your inner knowing and your heart and you will know which way to go, my love....

Peace, Union, Love, Light, Joy always